Honestly, as an African, I will not advice ladies to do this. I am a man, and God designed men to pursue women and not the other way round. When I was in the university, most ladies I was aware that liked me, honestly, I didn’t fancy them. In fact, the moment I noticed a particular girl likes me, I used to be rude around such girls, knowing that she likes me and has no where else to go. Some, became easy prey to just sleep with. Not just me, all my friends were like that too. It’s that girl that gives us tough time that we like the most. I was younger then, so I knew very little though. But ladies, please, don’t ask me out, you will regret it later. He will tell his friends and they all will see you as cheap
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Ur parents did a very bad job. Most of my long lasting relationships is credited to the women who asked me on a relationship and the person I said Yea to we were many years together and even she is married at the moment we still remained friends. So shift with ur they appear cheap narrative. My sister also asks men she liked out don’t know abt now she is married… Bt then as a single she likes sensible handsome men and she has brothers to know how a woman should be treated. So shift guy
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I personally don’t cosign on making the first move. Most men are confused and have no clue what they want. I actually can’t stand men. Had enough of their stupid mind games. I’m solo and happy and keeping my cat nice and tight! Who needs men when you can make your own money. AND the peace that comes with that solo life. Complete bliss!!
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As a man, if woman ask you out, just run, I’m talking from all my experiences, a woman that would or can ask you out is a very desperate woman and desperate for no other thing other than money, she go use billing finish you. I experienced it several times.
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I agree. Im a woman and although it may work sometimes. I don’t think it’s good in the long run. Best thing a lady can do is “drop the handkerchief “ give green light and hope the guy takes the bait and takes the lead. I feel a woman taking the lead attracts weak men, gay men, emotionally unavailable men. If a guy sees n likes you and he’s available he will go after you so far you smile and make eye contact. It’s simple
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Una done start with all this anyhow talk. For Nigeria na ashawo dey toast man , 90% of men will be thinking you’re sharing HIV
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